Does It Matter What You Wear?
Of course it does! We want to be appropriately and comfortably dressed so it isn't distracting. How can you court your honey when your shirt collar is choking you? your waistband is too tight? How can you represent your client if the judge doesn't allow women lawyers to appear in court in pants? How can you enjoy touring the Turtle Farm on Barbados when it's 95 degrees and you've got on polyester slacks? How can you work the Trade Show when your feet are killing you?CLOTHING AS NONVERBAL COMMUNICATIONClothing can show:? How much money you have ? How you spend your money ? Your values ? How you take care of things? How organized you are ? How creative you are ? What profession or industry you're in ? Whether you're a copy-cat or an original ANALYZE THISIt's easy to do -- clothing is all around us -- so spend some time analyzing. This is something you need to master. It's been said "dress for the position you next want," so take a look around your office. Where are the lines drawn.
How do you fit in? Be mindful. Are you representing what you want to, and what you intend to? I'm thinking of the mother at our children's 8th grade outdoor morning graduation ceremony in spangles, cleavage, boa and dangly earrings. What look was she after, I wondered. She had achieved the "appearing nightly" look.FIND OUT WHAT'S APPROPRIATEThe emotionally intelligent person plans ahead. When planning to travel on business, call a coach in the area you're going to.
Male lawyers in San Antonio, TX USA wear suspenders, while when my sister first started practicing law in D. C., judges did not permit women lawyers to wear pantsuits in court. In San Antonio, TX there isn't much use for a coat rack. I had no idea when I got to the Chicago Art Museum that I could check my coat and boots. There were lockers.
How nice! But neither was I prepared for how hot they keep their buildings. People who come to San Antonio are never prepared for how icy we keep our buildings in the summer.DOES IT REALLY MATTER?Of course it does, because you want to be able to concentrate on what's really important. You'll probably have a sense of what areas of the country are different, and in which areas dress matters more than in others. I had no idea for instance what to wear for a professional trip to Seattle, Washington (USA). Don't laugh, but all I'd seen in photos was lumber jackets and jeans.
Of course YOU are not your CLOTHES, but the more comfortable I am, the better I can do my job, and the more I'll enjoy myself. As my friend who didn't listen to me and took her bright floral patterned dresses to D. C. found out, there are good ways to stand out, and there are bad ways to stand out. In the room of 300 people all wearing solid colors, she might as well have had a bone in her nose.
She found it hard to get it out of her mind. That can take the edge off what you're about! FORGETTINGWhere I live it is 98 for a good part of the year, and then plummets all the way to, oh maybe freezing once in a while. It is said to snow once every ten years, but it's been longer than that since last it did. Therefore, I forget what "cold" means. I know cold, I went to college in Minnesota but I forget the feel of it.
When I arrived in Duluth, MN in February and it was 40 below ? honest degrees, not windchill ? I was appalled. When you check with that coach, don't settle for "it's cold up here" or "it could be 40 below," ask them "what's should I bring?" and, as I did before going to Russia, "please tell me what it feesl like when it's 70 degrees with 100 percent humidity and wind blowing at X mph."If you're female, ask that coach about jewelry. I was so grateful to the mentor who told me when I attended my first XX conference that the women in that profession in that town would be "draped in jewelry, rings, bracelets, necklaces earrings, toe rings, naval rings ?" Of course I would like to know the opposite, too. Why? Well, it's not cool to sit down to a business dinner in Seattle and ask for iced tea. If you know what I mean.
Oh, you haven't done that? Let me tell you what happens. Everyone's head jerks toward you. Then they look away. The waiter stammers and shifts from foot to foot. You realize immediately there is no iced tea in this town.
But the waiter won't let it go. "I'll brew some tea," he says, "and bring you a glass of ice." "Or just shoot me," I'm thinking. Then he adds, "Is that what iced tea is like?" Everyone is still looking at the ceiling. ASK THE COACHYour answers are only as good as your questions. Here's a good question to ask that coach: "What will I wish I'd brought with me that I won't think of." That will trigger the "tourist" mindset in your resource person.
Oh the things I've wished I'd brought.
?A well broken in pair of sandals for my Caribbean cruise?A bathing suit for my December trip to Chicago. Of course the hotel had a hot tub. They all do.?A pair of comfortable heels each time I've given a presentation. Why do I fool myself??Slacks with elastic waistline for cruises?Something Tencel for long trips?The black Pashmina shawl that works with everything.
Why do I leave it in the back of my closet??Something for the rain. It rains when you go somewhere else. You can go to the dollar store and buy what amounts to disposable ponchos and head covers. (Great for touring Russia in the summer or Seattle nearly any time).?Something really cute for vacations. You think you want to go funky, but then you see someone in a smashing linen matching outfit, and there you are, buying something cute in the hotel store with a price tag that isn't cute at all.
?An evening bag. With an evening bag you can get by with that same black Tencel skirt ? you know what I mean. ?Jeans. Dry cleaned and starched. ?Sensible shoes.
Oh was I mad when they wouldn't let me rent a motorbike on Grand Cayman with my thong sandals, and the heels back in my room wouldn't have made the cut either. ?That thing that's hanging on the back of your chair if you're in an office right now. You know what I mean. Bring it along for when you get cold which could be anywhere, any time.
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Women's Bathing Suits To Suit All Shapes
Shopping for women's bathing suits can be a daunting task because most women believe that bathing suits compliment only those with the perfect hourglass figure. This is not so. If you consider that very few have perfect figures, then you'll realize that there are many swimsuit options that can look great with your own body type.
You have the option of wearing one- or two-piece suits if you have large hips, but you should wear solid colors on the bottom to add more emphasis to the top part of the body. Remember that high-cut legs emphasize the hips, so try to buy low-cut legged suits.
If you are slightly overweight, try wearing string bikinis.
However, string bikinis may not sustain strenuous physical activities so they are not very appropriate for women who play a lot of sports such as beach volleyball.
Wear medium to high-cut legs, and suits with wide straps if your shoulders and bust are broader than your hips, and emphasize on colors...
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Sofistfunk Skirt Company, Requested Sponsors for 2005 American Music Awards Celebrity Gift Bags
(ContentDesk) November 13, 2005 -- Tuesday November 22, 2005, The Shrine Auditorium will be alive with sound, stage and fascinated onlookers, meanwhile, behind the scenes approximately 100 music-industry celebrity trendsetters will visit the coveted VIP room to recieve their well publicized gift bags.
A variety of peices from the Sofistafunk Holiday/Winter collection will travel from the festivities to the wardrobes of some of our most talented vocalists and other industry elites.
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Arlinda M. and Cheshire Mickens, designers for Sofistafunk are emerging voices for the woman who wants her daily look to feel as if it were a special occaision.They are also the minds behind The Sofistafunk Social Society, a not for profit group of people "dedicated to celebrating life through fashion" via "helping other people help someone else"Entering their 5th year designing this fun to wear collection of limited edition skirts and accessories,
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How to sell yourself in an audition
How to sell yourself in an Audition:Step 1: Mental PowerBy
and http://www.Ja-Nae.comWhat makes a successful audition? I've heard this question asked so many times. Within three installments, I am going to give you some very useful suggestions on how to sell yourself in an audition. After hundreds of auditions (both good and bad), this is what I have found.Step I: Mental Power If you think about it, the process begins with one thing: A great attitude! What do I mean by that? Before you audition, ask yourself the following questions:?Why do I want this audition??How do I walk into the audition? Do I walk in thinking I already have the part or do I walk in saying, "Why on earth would they want to hire me?"?Am I dressed for success??How do I walk out of the audition??What can I learn from this audition?By asking yourself these questions, they can help put you in the right frame of mind. You are a product in a business??so you have to learn how to sell yourself! Learning how to sell...
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Clone Sheep Not Clothes
(ContentDesk) September 23, 2005 -- As I took a friend's son shopping at a mall the other day, I was appalled by the shocking cloning process running amuck in the building. Each shirt looked just like every other shirt; each skirt just the same. Although his budget and expectations were low, I felt that I should give him a taste of true fashion --haute couture.First, I began telling him about haute couture fashion. Haute couture is French for high fashion. Haute means high or elegant while couture means sewing.What's behind the notion of Haute Couture?Haute couture is now synonymous with the design and creation of upscale, one-of-a-kind garments.
Haute couture houses must be registered with the Syndical Chamber for Haute Couture in Paris, and only 18 exclusive shops* belong. Collections are presented twice a year, and each show must have at least 35 outfits for both day and evening wear. Examples of these haute couture houses are Coco Chanel, Pierre Cardin, and Christian Dior...
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Holyday Eating Strategy Sheet
"I'm glad it is over," say many people after Thanksgiving, Christmas, or New Year's.If you are the food preparer, you are most likely shopping, mincing, dicing, and saut?ing, days ? possibly weeks before the event. The good china, crystal, flatware, and serving pieces are brought out of storage. They are washed, polished, and used once more before they are stored away for the next special event. If you are the attendee, you may be feeling guilty that the food preparer did all the work, so you may be thinking of eating a second portion of everything to show appreciation to the preparer. An enormous amount of food is put on the table(s).
People come. They eat. They leave over an enormous amount of food. This brings us to Holiday Leftovers. Holiday leftovers are not to be confused with the tunafish left on a platter after your family has had their share at lunch yesterday.
I'm talking about vast quantities of many dishes. Leftovers are not left over if they are eaten. For...
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